“Flavor of life”, few months back me n one of my friend had discovered this term. So what does it mean? Though I can elaborate d meaning but still want to say in one line...flavor of life is something which keeps u alive...keeps u happy.I am not sure about others but for me it is. Actually there are kinds of happiness too. May be I differ with my friend on this but anyways. Talking about d flavor of life, I just say that life keeps giving us different kind of flavor all d time...but here I am talking about d flavor we like or you can say we like to have. As time passes by, our source of flavor get change...when we were kid, our flavor was just toys…playing with them…buying new ones, gave us happiness. We kept waiting for any occasion to buy new one. And as we grown up things got changed...sometimes going to our grandparent’s house was d flavor of life…Sometimes our friend....girl friend…Boy friend were d flavor of life. Actually tat was d time when we understood d happiness (at least that time we felt so)… going out with friends…spending time with friends…making new friends, were d things which used to make us happy and alive. Giving cards...gifts…flowers to our love one, waiting for his/her calls, sms, letters....these were d things…actually beautiful things, which taught us d meaning of happiness that time.
Than 'marriage'...I believe this cud be a big source of tat wanted ‘flavor' in any one’s life...which can keep u always happy n alive…makes your life worth living.
But I have seen, in many cases it last within a short period of time...after some years of marriage when struggle starts for better future or new responsibilities start adding into life, we forget to mix d flavor in our life. We do start feeling that our life is dull, boring. And again we start our search for the flavor...for some people it cud be a baby...for some it cud be making a new friend...and for somebody it cud be something else...may be some other interest, in short, we can say, flavor of life keep changing throughout d life and we need it at every stage of life…at least now I can say this. It’s really necessary to keep u alive not only physically…but mentally and emotionally. Something, which u do for yourself…or incase u r doing it for others also and u feel happy than it’s your flavor of life. Actually anything which satisfies your sole is for you only.
For my friend this is something different…with which I don't agree…but still I do agree with d term n logic behind this. The only thing about flavor of life is, doing anything which keeps u alive.
Ultimately happiness matter for all of us…everyone has right to get his/her flavor of life. As a matter of fact this term was just a fun for me n my friend when we used it very first time but after that I realized or you can say analyzed this term...n perhaps, I am also searching for my flavor of life...or may be trying to maintain that flavor which I already have....
Than 'marriage'...I believe this cud be a big source of tat wanted ‘flavor' in any one’s life...which can keep u always happy n alive…makes your life worth living.
But I have seen, in many cases it last within a short period of time...after some years of marriage when struggle starts for better future or new responsibilities start adding into life, we forget to mix d flavor in our life. We do start feeling that our life is dull, boring. And again we start our search for the flavor...for some people it cud be a baby...for some it cud be making a new friend...and for somebody it cud be something else...may be some other interest, in short, we can say, flavor of life keep changing throughout d life and we need it at every stage of life…at least now I can say this. It’s really necessary to keep u alive not only physically…but mentally and emotionally. Something, which u do for yourself…or incase u r doing it for others also and u feel happy than it’s your flavor of life. Actually anything which satisfies your sole is for you only.
For my friend this is something different…with which I don't agree…but still I do agree with d term n logic behind this. The only thing about flavor of life is, doing anything which keeps u alive.
Ultimately happiness matter for all of us…everyone has right to get his/her flavor of life. As a matter of fact this term was just a fun for me n my friend when we used it very first time but after that I realized or you can say analyzed this term...n perhaps, I am also searching for my flavor of life...or may be trying to maintain that flavor which I already have....
Welcome to the blogger's wrold. Very nice start. I do agree with ur way of discribing "Flavour of life" and do agree with most of the part. Apart from this I am very happy that you re-started writing :) Keep it up, waiting for the next one.
ReplyDeletethanks ks..i m thankful to u actualy tat its u who encouraged me to write again..n thanks for d sugesstions.it gonna help me always.
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